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Say what feels natural to you in the moment, and definitely don’t feel like you have to construct some elaborate sex narrative beforehand. This isn’t some weird sex monologue; you don’t have to talk the whole time. Even just a well placed “I can’t wait to feel you inside me” as you walk through the door or when you kiss can do the trick. When delving into dirty talk, Litner suggests going slow. Instead of diving right in, start sprinkling in some sexy talk here and there to get comfortable with it. From there, you can gauge what feels right for you and your partner.

The Dirty Talk Phrase That Will Work (Like Crazy) For Most Men

And it will be worth it; very little is hotter than well-done dirty talk. That’s why women tend to consume more written porn; it’s a large part of why 50 Shade of Grey did well. Create space outside of any sexual activity for reflection.

• All tongue-tied when it comes to talking dirty?
• Talking dirty about a wild party is always a huge turn-on.
• Still playing into the curiosity aspect, this question will get his mind thinking of past hookups and will get him in a horny mood.
• Especially if the talk involves any degradation, you want explicit consent before starting this dynamic.
• To help you find the right words to say, we spoke with a handful of dirty-talking ladies about erotic conversation and found that there are some dos and don’ts that most women can agree on.
• Your man brain plays the largest role in sexual pleasure.

“Feeling you on top of me and in control is the hottest thing ever!”

Like anything worth doing, it usually takes a bit of practice. For many people, the thought of talking dirty during sex before sex or after sex can be as scary as the sex itself. What to say during sex and what to do during sex both have a lot to do with your partner and what they’re into. Remember that the same “lines” don’t work on everyone.

After sex

• For those of you who are looking for a bit more actionable phrases to include in your dirty talk, I’ve got you covered.
• If you’re feeling this resistance, you need to intentionally set up a safe container for dirty talk with your partner before you begin actually exploring it.
• It’s the verbal equivalent of that sizzling eye contact with your partner, the kind that says, “It’s on.” Or that tells your partner exactly what you’re enjoying or hoping they’ll do next.
• When you talk dirty to him you should be having fun too!

Of course, it’s not easy to start talking dirty to your partner if you never done this before. You might not feel comfortable, confuse and afraid. Or maybe you’ve thought “I’m too shy to talk dirty! Your man brain plays the largest role in sexual pleasure.

Consensual spanking and light bondage can add an intense edge to your sexual talk. Learning how to talk dirty to your man is quiet simple and propitious. Basically, dirty talk for boys is parallel to dirty talk for girls. It is just all about making use of your senses to divulge your rousing intention.

This is why erotic books like 50 Shades of Gray are infamous smash hits among female readers. Meanwhile, guys are dominating porn usage because their arousal has more directly visual triggers. I’ll walk you through the things to generally avoid, include, and steer clear of altogether, in order for you to dominate the world of dirty talk. Dirty talk is an often overlooked but very powerful aspect of increasing sexual tension. It activates the imagination, supercharges sexual polarity, and adds a steamy air of liberation to your naked shenanigans. In the bedroom, when someone says “Talk dirty to me baby…” the hopefully-soon-to-be dirty talker suddenly freezes up like a soaking wet roll of toilet paper thrown out of an igloo in Antartica.